This is my approach. I have BPD and take it as it is, just meeting and talking. You may find one that is very easy to talk to and is really cool. You would be very surprised if you drop little parts of your past that may have been rocky, that may be able to relate. You could have met me! I would feel comfortable that you wouldn't judge me when my disorder. Take it slow, have fun, and don't have any expectations and don't jump into anything that doesn't feel right at all.