Would any of us seriously be asking ourselves this if, say, we had cancer and were going under chemo? Or had some other physical illness? I get pissed off at myself for barely having the energy to just get through the day. I think, for me, I internalize what other people say, and these "other people" are the ones that can't really grasp the severity of what we go through. They think that we should just "get over it". I wish it were really that simple.