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Originally Posted by sophiesmom
If anyone here can simply stand by while someone they love gets repeatedly hurt, then I would be very surprised and saddened.
Men and their wives and mothers....it's very very tough....I understand completely.
Five of you live in that house. Five of you should have a family meeting.
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I understand what you are saying. Of course it's sad to watch unhealthy dynamics.
I am not saying op shouldn't care but generally speaking interfering in others marriage even if their own parents' never works. They've been married 24 years and have their own dynamics and know what works for them.
I have objections to some things in my parents marriage and tried when I was young but never accomplished anything. Now they have been married for over 50 years and have their own dynamics with what works for them, it's not how I conduct certain things, but I am not them, who am I to say how things need to be.
Something that looks off for others might be just their own dynamics. They are all grown people. It's not like s child being mistreated. IMHO of course
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