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Originally Posted by black-roses
I agree that I would come across to a lot of guys as not knowing what I am good at. I might appear a bit lost so they may not want to be a guide or a counsellor to me because I appear as someone who needs that extra guidance and maybe they just don't know how to help someone like me.
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The person you date shouldn't be a guide or a counselor. The person you date should be an equal; a partner. If you feel like you need guidance, that's where therapy or life coaching comes in. Working through that and figuring out what you're good at or what you're passionate should be your own, personal journey. You're young so it's understandable you haven't figured that out yet. Just don't look to a partner for that. It makes relationships unhealthy when one person is is control and the other is the follower. It's much healthier to be in a relationship where you are equals.