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Originally Posted by kamikazebaby
I'm in the same situation. I've just met a nice girl (finally) and she says she's really into me. We had agreed SLOW and EASY, but it feels a little like I want to hit both the gas pedal and the brakes, haha. I don't think I'm alone in that either. But the insecurity is epic. The minute you start to like someone...wham! You're having a neurotic fit. (Or at least that's how happens for me.) The best I can offer is to try to distract yourself and not focus on it if you can help it at all.
I hate getting attached, too. She wants me to seriously date her, but I'm afraid she'll just treat me like trash as soon as she has me where she wants me. I feel much safer right where I am. But...ugh. I should be asking you for advice, not trying to offer you some! Lol. Sorry it's not much help, I just wanted to let you know that I really relate!
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Hey there! Thank you for responding!
I wish you the best of luck with your new romantic interest! It seems like we have opposite problems. She wants you to seriously date her but I have no idea what my crush wants. Something is telling me that they're a bit nervous about how they feel about me. I have been trying to distract myself actually! I've been trying to get a hold on my anxiety and I am trying to do things by myself. So I went to the botanical gardens by my house today, by myself, and it was great! ^__^
Do not worry. You've been helpful! Thank you! I wish you luck with your crush! And don't let your fear hold you back. This girl sounds very nice (you said so yourself) and it seems like she wants something serious. I don't think she'll treat you like trash. Don't be afraid to take a risk when it comes to romance.
I'm trying to take more risks as well!