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Old Jul 12, 2016, 10:10 PM
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Originally Posted by rdgrad15 View Post
Yep totally agree. Sometimes I feel like I sound arrogant but when people are so optimistic to the point where they become those things you mentioned, it just really gets on my nerves, especially if it is going to result in a negative outcome when it comes to making decisions.
It IS very annoying. Well, being the rational one pointing out the issues with a situation that everyone else wants to be sparkles and cupcakes can make one very unpopular! Of course, it's wasy for them not to mind and to chastise you for being "difficult" when it affects you more than it does them! Lol. I don't have tolerance for the excessive (and often invalidating) optimism anymore myself. Or for people taking advantage. You did the right thing - keep blocking those moves.
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