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Originally Posted by kamikazebaby
It IS very annoying. Well, being the rational one pointing out the issues with a situation that everyone else wants to be sparkles and cupcakes can make one very unpopular! Of course, it's wasy for them not to mind and to chastise you for being "difficult" when it affects you more than it does them! Lol. I don't have tolerance for the excessive (and often invalidating) optimism anymore myself.  Or for people taking advantage. You did the right thing - keep blocking those moves. |
Yep, totally agree. Like I mentioned before, I feel like there is a difference between pointing out the flaws in something or someone for a very good reason in order to prevent something bad from happening, such as being used or something else going wrong, and just being a debbie downer in general because someone just likes to complain. I know the difference, I think even though people may say it is negativity, I think pointing out the flaws in something for a very good reason is actually considered being realistic, even though to others it may be considered being a debbie downer.