In response to your reply to Rainy Eskie.... I can certainly understand people thinking sarcastic comments are funny instead of rude... I'm sarcastic my whole family is. But we know others find it offensive, so its a family and close friends thing.


But there's no way in hell anyone is going to convince me a person without any substantial cognitive impairment doesn't know that the term "effing fat" is just plain rude.


The first word is a swear word and the second most people find offensive.


It's not innuendos or something else equally obscure that the person is unknowingly using wrong.


Please ladies, don't make excuses for people who treat you like shyt on purpose. There's still a man behind that label and that man is not completely oblivious. It's plain impossible.