I agree with Red.


I would follow my bf to the ends of the earth, but that's because my daughter is mine, I don't share custody with her sperm donor.


If i had to choose time and access to my child over my bf, i would definitely choose my child, and that's not because I don't love my bf enough, she just comes first. As she should.


If you want to move then move, you knew he was tied to his vicinity when you started dating him, so this predicament is on both of you.


You can either stay, sever the relationship or attempt long distance until he can move, as a LDR is essentially what you're asking him to have with his son. So its not too much to ask of you, as a relationship goes both ways..... In my opinion anyway.