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Old Jul 13, 2016, 12:24 PM
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I just want to touch on that clingy subject...


While its all good and well to not come across as a clinger... You also don't want to show zero interest at all.


So please don't always wait for her to contact you, she might perceive this as disinterest on your part, and it may be why she's reluctant to let you know where she's at.


Also, even if she doesn't think any of these things she could be asking about you on a forum right now and ppl will say "if a guy is interested he will make an effort" yes, sadly totally disregarding what the guy may be experiencing... Not fair, and certainly not always true (from my own experience with my bf) BUT its what is preached across the world.


So please call or text her, even if its just a pic or a meme that you'd like to share. That way there's no early gushing goo goo eyes or the clingy label, just someone opening the lines of communication (which BONUS!... means he was thinking about her)....
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