Hi ScrappyOrange, (Cool name!)
I'm lucky because I've had my fiancee since 2011, and there is very little that we don't talk about. I've also been lucky enough to have had some good therapists and psych docs on and off over the last 30 yrs, and even a pretty awesome JR High School social worker that took a special interest in me. Don't get me wrong, there have been bad ones along the way and even some long periods with no one at all.
I don't know what's available to you in Japan, but you have found Psych Central, at least, and no matter what other help you find (or not), the people here are a HUGE PLUS!
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