Hi Blizz
Rainy day said it all-

If he stalls on having this conversation in the very least near future or has needs and goals that aren't similar to yours - think seriously about your future happiness and what you are willing to sacrifice and what are the critical things you want. Tell him what you want and be straightforward in a nondemanding but very clear way. Tell him to please be completely honest with you, too.

Don't underestimate this (above), it will catch up with you and by then you would be drained. Nothing works likes authenticity in a relationship.

i hope it works out for you