Okay so I've been on this site for a while now and I have some observations. First, it's discouraging - you really don't get a lot of responses - would it be asking too much for a thank you after complimenting somebody's photo. I have had several individuals who have sent me a response and then disappeared after I replied? On the bright side, I do have one individual that I have an ongoing discussion with but the only problem is she only gives me one sentence responses (I usually reply with a whole paragraph). She's attractive but I don't know how to read the situation. It's depressing because I've actually tried to open up alternative avenues to my solitary lifestyle - oh well. Anyway time marches on and pretty soon I just won't care or won't know what's going on