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Originally Posted by ~Christina
I understand your frustration... There is no way everyone is going to get along and like each other at a job or the world. but you know this.
When I managed people and had newer employees came to me with the type situation your dealing with.. My response was , your new , Just do your job and people will just stop nonsense because someone is going to come in after you and you wont be the "new" worker anymore
Unless there is an actual threat to you... complaining to your manager this soon is probably going to become more of a problem about YOU than the other people..
And I did make some friends every job I worked i just never went into a job and expected people to be all sugar sweet, I think that only happens in movies.
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I guess that it's best to NOT say anything to management unless things get to become out of hand. I hope to god that doesn't happen.
Why would these two single moms single me out for NO reason at all? Is it because I'm shy, new, and haven't really clicked with any of the night crew yet? Most of them are guys.
I'm overweight and not even that pretty, but not ugly. So they have nothing to be jealous of other than the fact that they know that I'm married w/o kids. One of them has 3 kids. The main bully is a single mom, and a bully. Wow, you'd think a mother would be more mature than that! Most of the guys who work there aside from one old guy who's a cashier never tries to talk to me unless I ask them about something, so wth is wrong with them?
My husband told me that they are just low class and that's how they are. I guess that they are just bored and have nothing better to talk about? Ugh! Like I said earlier, they were trying to follow me around and giggle behind my back the other day, so I walked away from them and then they left me alone. The manager is OK with me. He's cool. Most people there will say hi to me and smile when they see me. I usually say hi to them first.
The worst thing is that my husband is mad at me for something now and he doesn't know how to help me. He just told me to not say anything to them and that's all. UGH!!!! I think that ignoring them is working a little. I'll say hi back to them if they say hi to me from now on. Especially in front of other people and the manager. God, people like them suck so bad! I hate them!
What causes someone to be a bullies target at work and in general usually? Have you ever had this happen to you, or known anyone who did? If so, how did you or the other person deal with the situation?