You are going through such a stressful time, I hope things improve soon.

Can your wife work? If she can't, she may be disabled and qualify for SSDI benefits. SSA.org has the information. Just a thought...

You have mental illnesses, too, that may qualify you for SSDI if you can't work.

The application process to get approved can take years, but not always. I was approved in three months. I applied online at their website.