Everyone discloses themselves just by "being" themselves. Hasn't your T ever said/done something that made you feel protective of her or made you want to chuckle? The words we say aren't "us" it's the whole package and letting one see one's foibles, etc. T's have foibles too, just like everyone else :-) That's what we're "learning"/trying to pattern ourselves after, the way they "are". You know the looks she gives you and how you know what they mean, etc.? That's something personal between the two of you! She doesn't give every client "that" look; that's your look! All the ways of being and things you unconsciously notice about her and ways you say certain things and not others because you "know" her and how she will respond :-) Just like one would with a good mother or good friend, etc., kind of knowing what they'd say or do, how they think.