Her theory was that showing your insecurities to others make you more likable to them.

I guess it's true, but from what I see is more of a form of "pity", they don't genuinely like you. And I don't want people to be my friends because of this.. I want them to be my friends because they like me, as a human being..

I don't have specific goals in my life... at the moment I just want a job and a good social life. But I don't even knwo what kind of job I want to do in the future, I seem to suck at everything... so it's difficult