I'm an advocate for being in your comfort as a system if on purpose is how you want to describe it then so be it. As long as your not under someone else's microcosm then do as you/they want. I'm just purging some of my personal story I guess thinking that impeding doom that someone will require on demand switches and influences if I let on to this information. The world is only required to know you as what your relationships are your career, family etc so everything else is secondary. I just wanted to comment on this angle that we are great at whatever we do.