((((((((Sunbeem)))))))) I agree it's hard to manage a long term physical condition without impact on mental health.
I try so hard to see what I can do and am planning rather than what I can't, but when the "can do" gets less and less, there's a new loss every day.

Sorry, no clever answers, just a hug.
I wish I could give more! (And that I saw this sooner)