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Although there is a part of me that wonders...is everything that happens in the therapy room true or is it part of the therapy?

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"How much of this is transference and how much if it is a real relationship?"

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I used to think about this, ladies, but several months ago, T just looked at me one day and said, "This is real." (hmmm I had forgotten that, I'll have to add it to the "favorites" thread.)

I think the whole package is real. The therapy is real. The relationship is real. Our feelings are real. There is no separation. It's the real deal, just different from anything we've experienced before.