I've been on a few meds that were deal breakers because they literally... Literally... Made me numb or very painful down there. I rather sort it out in my head myself then lose my ability to have sex. Even tried faking it. The physical pain wasn't worth the theater. Even now, it takes a few drinks for me to get into it and even then, I'm saying "omg hurry!" In my head lol. And I get your worries! My fiances first marriage ended with them in separate rooms for years. I never want to be like that.

He'll sometimes question me on why I've been different in that area and it's all the meds. I assure him I still love him the same, if not more. It sucks. I know. I wish I had more answers for you but I suggest communication and clarity. Let him know he is loved and it's not HIS fault. I hope he can understand and you guys can remain strong.

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