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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006
Actually many men do. Not me, but many men do this. And no I do not think men that hit on women randomly online or in real life are on drugs or mentally ill. shallow? yes. Try not to be so negative at men.
Thing is, even as the world has changed by and large much of the dating and making a connection to the opposite sex still rests with men. I do not think it's wrong or bad, inherently but my point is only to say that with that in mind you might understand better why a number of men do this. Lacking the knowledge on how to approach women many men only know how to "hit on" women randomly.
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Thank you so much for this I was seeing this as a negative thing but some of these guys just my not know how to approach women and can only compliment them. I didn't understand that before but now I do and I think it can be cute that some of them try to talk to women but a lot of the media and movie portrays women as also being shallow and only caring that a guy focuses on their beauty and etc. Unfortunately, that misrepresents how women are and what they are looking in relationships.