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Old Jul 15, 2016, 04:00 AM
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Originally Posted by alexa234 View Post
I find that if i have a choice as soon as i choose option one i want option two. This can be from something simple like choosing a meal... shall i eat chinese or fish and chips... as soon as i order one i want the other... and then don't enjoy the one i have chosen. Bigger decisions like shall we go away for the weekend or not... If we don't go I spend the whole weekend wishing we had, and if we do I wish we hadn't. I find i can't make big decisions (like moving house) and then end up doing the default of doing nothing and later regretting it. I have always had some degree of difficulty with decisions but over the last two or three years it has become a real problem. In fact it is ruining my life as i end up not enjoying whatever i am doing as i regret what i am not doing.

Has anyone else experienced similar problems? I am really interested to know if anyone has, and also for any ways to combat this.

Thank you


yes

and like you.. it's always the things that are (meant) to be easy

like... do i want a drink- no i don't think so, i'll have it later, then turn round to leave the kitchen and think.... well, actually, i will- then i'll turn back round and think.. well i all ready said i don't want 1, why am i going back?

yeah food too, even what to do in the day- i hate deciding things, because 1 thing's garanteed.. if i'm in charge of it, i'll never make up my mind- never