I have a friend who I have known since we were kids and I love the bones of her, I guess we are more like family. But unfortunately like with family there are times when you could do without the drama !!

She has always been needy, arriving on my doorstep in tears following the latest argument etc. Whether it be her parents divorcing in our early teens, falling off a bike and not wanting her mother to know and now 2 divorces of her own, a problem with alcohol and break up with the father of her child. Don't get me wrong I don't mind being a support for her but we're not children anymore I have a life too and actually I could use her support but that doesn't happen.

The situation at the moment is that my partner who has Bpd also has Brittle Asthma and has actually been told that his next attack could kill him. He a life threatening attack 2 nights back and honest I thought I was going to lose him, especially having following the ambulance to the hospital with sirens and flashing lights. So I text my friend telling her about it and how scared I am. And I get no reply