I have always been able to share with spouse. I had a pdoc for 14 years who knew just about everything and I highly trusted and respected her but she retired. I had a friendship blossom that started on PC and we were very close and spoke of many things for a little over a year. She found a lover and that was the end of that. I don't share much with my new pdoc, she's only good for meds. I do share a little with my oldest sister but basically it's just me and spouse again.