I used to live by a certain code, one of them were "Never give anyone anything that they can use against you" Since recently being diagnosed I have come to get rid of such a childish code, other humans are one of the most important parts of life. I have been married now for 5 years and it has shook me to my core on how understanding another human could be so caring for me, my wife has Todally stepped up in helping me own my disabilities, and as much as it breaks my heart mental illness has brought us closer together and I look at her in a totally different light. There are going to be those who will show you their true colours when you open up to them, like has happened to me, but I am in a way relieved because I am glad I know so I could expell them from my life. I used to fear about what others thought, but since opening up and sharing it has definitely helped me in my situation and I can finally start working on me again, hope this helps in some small way, signed one who understands.