I think I would have asked you how much time you'd need to get a list together to present to me and we would have found a way to afford you more participation. A raise of all or nothing seems a bit extreme. We are all human and make some mistakes.
It does seem extreme, from one review/raise to another.
My husband keeps a simple notebook of accomplishments for his evaluations, so he remembers what he did.
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WC