I'm just being honest - I thought that was a good quality. Somebody said women hate being called beautiful - not true. I'm not rejecting everybody's advice but I still refuse to believe complimenting someone on their physical apearance is a bad thing. Seems like I'm being shallow - I'm not really. The one lady that I have continued to converse with we have talked about religion, travel and food. If I do get a reponse I usually don't call them gorgeous but look for something we have in common. However, I find it counter to my nature not to compliment someone if I think they're beautiful - I don't think that's bad manners. Its like a work of art - why not say something good if you enjoy it. I know what my interests are. I probably wouldn't hang with someone I could not talk to. I've made comments besides looks. Right now I'm just getting exhausted just thinking about it.