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Originally Posted by Macd123
I'm just being honest - I thought that was a good quality. Somebody said women hate being called beautiful - not true. I'm not rejecting everybody's advice but I still refuse to believe complimenting someone on their physical apearance is a bad thing. Seems like I'm being shallow - I'm not really. The one lady that I have continued to converse with we have talked about religion, travel and food. If I do get a reponse I usually don't call them gorgeous but look for something we have in common. However, I find it counter to my nature not to compliment someone if I think they're beautiful - I don't think that's bad manners. Its like a work of art - why not say something good if you enjoy it. I know what my interests are. I probably wouldn't hang with someone I could not talk to. I've made comments besides looks. Right now I'm just getting exhausted just thinking about it.
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You still don't seem to understand what people are saying. It's not wrong to compliment familiar people on their appearance. It's entirely different when total strangers whom a woman never met and maybe never will, compliments on her appearance. Such compliments hold no value and no special meaning, it's not going to make women warm and fuzzy inside: because they don't know you. It might not be a bad thing but it holds no value.
just because you like doing something it doesn't mean you should. Yes I understand you like completing women's looks. But women don't like when strangers do so. So why insisting on doing something that doesn't work and what others don't appreciate ?
Honestly the only people who tend to keep doing something just because they like it are teenagers. But even they would consider stopping if it doesn't bring favorable results and makes others uncomfortable.
I really don't get it how and why you keep doing things that clearly don't work. This is just the strangest thing ever.
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