Please don't be so offensive towards mental illness! Saying that all men who behave like that must have mental issues...... Seriously that is so beyond offensive to all of us who have disorders!

How do all these men get access to your fb profile? Do you advertise with it? Are you part of many Facebook groups that you are really active in or that advertise you?

Do you use your real name in both your webcaming and fb, or the same alias?

How do you advertise for your webcaming? Wherever that is, can't you add in a message saying that you will not be responding to messages on your personal pages.... And then maintain that?