Are you saying that criticism or comments that could be interpreted that way, hurt intensely? You just apologized for "bothering people" and implied this is chronic, since you also said "keep bothering people".

I'm wondering if you have low self-esteem (edit: I see now you made a post about that) and/or experienced a history of being criticized harshly in the past, having your feelings not taken seriously by others, or being frequently argued with? That could potentially make someone take negative comments at face value, or "tense up" expecting more of the same.