I had similar a few years ago. It was honestly one of the hardest times in my life and ruined my relationship and some friendships too. I have managed to rebuild some but it took a long time... I basically had to keep telling him that I needed to be able to live my life, he couldn't babysit me forever and that him supervising everything was actually making everything a whole lot worse. It took a while for it to sink in but eventually I was given freedom again. I would try to get this to stop as soon as possible...I think once your spouse falls into a babysitter/supervisor kindof role it's hard for them to go back to being just a spouse...