Thanks bizi, it is the waiting that is really hard, that and the not knowing when it will happen, we know it will. But how long does he have? We just don't know, and the poor guy is in so much pain and can't even talk, eat or drink anything anymore. I hate to say it, but for the sake of his pain and the fact that he has no quality of life left, I hope it isn't too long. It hurts to.say that cause I love him so much and don't want to see him go, but I don't want to see him this way either...