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Honestly, as self-defeatist as it may sound, I was chatting about this topic more generally on another forum, and I think it just boils down to me being straight-up ugly. I simply don't bring to the table what gets one considered for relationship material, and there's nothing I will ever be able to do about it. There's just got to be so many better options out there than me, and if there aren't (like I've heard women oft lament), they'd all rather be alone than give the dumper fire of a mess that is my physical manifestation a chance.
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I've read this several times and it absolutely mystifies me - you've had feedback contrary to this from many of us on this thread, I'm not sure where you get these feelings from.
Once more, from your photo you appear above average looking, you are clearly intelligent, varied interests - yet you are doubting your own worth/attractiveness. Not only that but you are using very negative words such as 'garbage faced' about yourself, I really hope you are at the very least addressing your self-esteem issues, if not working with a T.