Thank you! ...and yes, I know that he is spying me. He stalks my social media, and then confronts me with questions of why I liked this post, and " who is so-and-so"? His attitudes in those moments of suspiciousness is alarming and very uncomfortable to me. Within the last month he knew I had a hair appointment at a salon, and after I didn't answer my phone ( it was inside my purse in a drawer while I was having highlights done), he came in and confronted me while my hairdresser was there. He accused me of being on my phone with someone and ignoring his calls. Categorically not the case! Over the past 3 years it's been this type of examples that have me burned out and wishing to be alone to process the chaos, along wit living again without that feeling of walking on eggshells. I love the man, and there's a side to him that's kind, caring, and funny... Yet this jealous and scary behavior has slowly become 80% normal. Thank again for your advice!!!!