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Old Jul 17, 2016, 06:51 PM
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Originally Posted by SuperwomanBp2 View Post
My husband believes that the best way to help me is to spy on me and block me from certain websites. So my email is being monitored and I can't go to certain websites, I feel as if I'm under house arrest. I gave him all my credit cards, I stopped talking to pretty much everyone via email, how is this suppose to help me get better?

To be honest, I feel more like a troubled teen than I do his wife.

Has anyone else's spouse done this to them and how did it make you feel? How do I get my life back from him?
Welcome, SuperwomanBp2!

Is this new behavior? Post-incident? Post-dx? Or has this been a regular feature? I took a quick peek at your other posts to see if I was missing anything, and it seemed there were temptations, but not follow through. Which makes me wonder if there was something BP-related that precipitated this situation. Or if he is controlling in general.

Not to be nosey, just didn't want to make an assumption on the nature of the situation. (Because I think those behaviors can come from different motivations.)
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