my husband does not block me from any thing on the internet but he has checked my email and facebook and he has taken my debit card last year when I was in a manic episode (we share a joint account and I was detrimentally overspending). This was all due to my reckless behavior and he was legitimately worried about me. I ended up in the hospital based on what I was doing. I am grateful he was helping me, although its diffficult when a spouse acts like a parent.

This was really only a one time thing and I have my debit card back. I think he does check my search history from time to time, but I also don't erase it, and I also know he does it because he worries about me from time to time and he is not controlling. So I guess you have to know whether or not you are being controlled. Is your husband doing this all the time or just during episodes?