just about every argument i have with my wife is the same she always wants to take pictures of me and i hate it i don't like the way i look and i hate looking at myself but she won't just drop it we argued about it again today. she crys and says she has no pictures of me and what about when were old and our son is older and theres no pictures i'm glad there won't be but she gets upset and today she cryed again. she says its cause i don't have any confidence and she thinks if she keeps saying good things about me and taking pictures i'll like how i look but it don't work like that i still hate looking at myself. am i being a jerk cause i won't let her take pictures of me?