Welcome!

So I read your whole post, and what it felt like to me is your gut is saying this relationship is done and you wanted someone to say it is okay to accept it didnt work out and move on.

Thats one option.

Another option is to get a therapist, and both commit to better communication.

Money is always a subject in anh relationship.

I am wondering, are either of you expecting marrige/kids out of this relationship? Have long term issues been discussed?

It sounds to me like for the most part communication is off and you probably both dont feel like you are being heard by the other.

Also, overcoming previous issues like you stated takes a lot of work and love. Congrats for doing so! Are you both still invested to overcome these issues?

Good luck either way. I hope you find happiness!

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