HaloweenSkye, I hope the appointment was constructive for you!!!!
We're not our labels, they are only really a short hand summary of symptoms. I hope you can find a way of being which you feel happier with, whether you have a "label" or not.
After all, you're a human being and that is more relevant than any labels or ticks in boxes.
Good luck as you look for a more satisfactory way forward for you