Most intelligent women aren't superficial, aren't into looks and money or particular tastes and only care about human qualities.

There are plenty very average looking or frankly physically unattractive men out there who are happily married or dating. There is way more to people than looks. Plus many women don't even care how men look. I am a good looking woman but never cared about how men look. Unless you are looking for very young ditzy girls, women wouldn't worry about looks that much. There is no accomplishment in looks, it's just genetics. Saying all that I think you are good looking but even if you were not, it means very little to most people

Same about salaries. Most intelligent people want their male employed and self sufficient but particular salary means nothing, most people wouldn't even know your salary until you get in a serious relationship.

Unless again these are ditzy gold diggers, women don't care. I know I had no clue what my husband makes until we got serious, he makes same as me, he is also just average looking and a bit on a heavy side so he is neither rich no gorgeous yet he is the most wonderful person. That's all what matters

Don't feel defeated. Or put yourself down. Focus on positive qualities of yourself and potential mate and that would happen

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