Fuzzybear, my mother used to say the same thing about her own mother. My mom was very hurt by the way she was treated by her own mother. I could see that pain everyday in her. She spent her entire life looking for validation from her mom; which sadly never came. My mod died at 62 due to asthma complications, and her mother tried to find another excuse to not even be at the funeral. That is when the reality of the pain my mom felt, made itself plain to see. Bless you my dear! I am praying for you!