Surely it would be a red flag for anyone?!

Whilst my heart goes out people really suffering with transference and boundary issues - it really does. I know the intensity of pain needed to bring on that behaviour. But this is such a huge red flag issue, and is spoken about so freely in texts for therapists - that it has put me off becoming a T myself even if I ever got rich enough to afford to do the qualifications!

*edit - under no circumstances am i talking about the OP here - i thought he sounded kinda lovely and self aware and not scary.