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Originally Posted by thesnowqueen
I think it's counter-productive and insensitive to tell an anonymous commentator on a forum like this that his behaviour is likely to be interpreted as threatening and dangerously pathological. It's especially absurd when the forum is itself full of accounts of quite similar types of behaviour.
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I don't think anyone has used the words 'dangerously pathological'. The kind of behaviour we are talking about here has a massive spectrum, and as I said before, I think OP is not a threat, and is at the mild end of the spectrum.
But- having had a colleague sit in a car park spying on me - Hell yeah - Thats threatening! I don't doubt for a second that the OP's intention wasn't meant to be threatening - but there is a very realistic possibility is that it could have been interpreted by his T as threatening behaviour. Its not counter productive to advise him to prevent this by talking to his T. Its positive encouragement to OP to turn this situation in to a constructive and healing event, rather than to sit on secrets and shame and let it spiral in to something worse.