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Old Jul 19, 2016, 04:40 PM
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Originally Posted by thesnowqueen View Post
Waiting somewhere, hoping for a glimpse of the one person in the world that understands what you have been through is not quite the same as showing up at someone's work place and 'confronting them' (whatever that means). Nor is it like deliberately sending gifts the other person won't like. Both of these behaviours seem highly aggressive which suggests a quite different scenario.
Because it is a different scenario. My ex-T abandoned me. There's a lot of hurt, anger, saddness, etc. The OP has a good relationship with their T atm. But acting on the thoughts is stalker behavior. It's not innocent.
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