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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
It sounds like he is the type of individual that takes up "all" the space when he is around, takes up whatever space you happen to be "in" when it comes to "his" home.
It sounds like the time you have been "away" and have had your "own" space has become meaningful to you, even comfortable. Well, once one has that and realizes how nice it is to have one's OWN SPACE, it's hard to go back to a place where that simply did not exist for you.
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OE, thank you for stating that so well. You are exactly right. I have always been living in "HIS SPACE" and I have now had a taste of "MY SPACE." I don't want to give up "MY SPACE." I have learned to like ME and everything in MY Space that represents ME. I wish there was a way to combine MY space with HIS space. I guess that is part of my fear.
Can one actually combine HIS space with HER space and make "THEIR" space? Is it really possible? Guess we will see.