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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
Because it is a different scenario. My ex-T abandoned me. There's a lot of hurt, anger, saddness, etc. The OP has a good relationship with their T atm. But acting on the thoughts is stalker behavior. It's not innocent.
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I think the aggressive component makes a significant difference... And acting on aggressive thoughts will yield more destructive and problematic behaviour than acting on non-aggressive thoughts and impulses. So saying OP's behaviour is like yours would be - were you to act on your impulses is incorrect.