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I'm sorry. But my perspective with regard to this is, if this divorce is going to happen, (& assuming your daughter's mother will have custody which, from what you wrote, it sounds like she will) you simply walk away (financially speaking) & start over. The "assets", whatever they are, stay with the child & the custodial parent... no 50/50. (You, of course have a legal right to visitation.) I'm sure that's not what you want to hear. But it is my honest perspective.