I am no contact with my narcissist sister for a year and nine months and no contact with my narcissist mother for six weeks,you will never be loved by a narcissist they only care about using you,I am not mixing with them,I am still hurting though from the years of abuse they gave me.The hot weather has further fueled my memories and anger.
But as for the advice to stay away from them I am no contact and totally alone in life so it feels like I am the one being punished even though I cut them out of my life.

@baseline I have never lived in the States.

@Nimportequoi sounds like we both are in the same boat with no friends and not being able to holiday,it stinks doesn't it?!