She's the one you should be talking to about this, in my opinon. We all move at different paces. Sounds like, as mentioned, she's just not ready for that, as she said.

When it comes to women, I don't push, because I feel that's not respectful. Also, when a woman says she's not ready, it probably means she's not ready. I don't care if a woman is dry humping my leg, if she says no or stop, I'm gonna back off, because something is very clearly not right. To reiterate, we move at different paces.

She may also just not feel comfortable with you specifically. I don't mean to sound so accusative... it's just that there may be something you've said or done to have warranted her reaction, which is why I would suggest you talk to her about it. Ask her, something like, "Have I said or done something wrong?" Never push a woman about these things. You might've just unknowingly stepped on a landmine, figuratively speaking. Communication is key. If you're looking for a relationship with this woman, what better way to start than with solid communication?

I'm not the most experienced bloke ever, thanks in part to my MH and insecurities thereof, so feel free to ignore me. I do however have experience with women who need a gentler, more patient approach. This has been easier because I myself need a similar approach, as I have intimacy issues thanks to my anxiety/OCD, so I don't tend to rush into things like that.

...wait ... what... she's got a husband? Dear Lord man, stay away. She's a married woman; out of bounds; prohibited; not allowed; not applicable; forbidden.